I've tried a lot of strapless strap-ons and this is the total package. The best part about it is that it's got a very natural give and flexibility. It feels so natural that it can easily be used solo. I've been searching far and wide for gender affirming toys as a non-binary person, and this has it all for me. Fair warning, it's a little bit heavy, and the bulb end is a little large and takes some warming up to. But personally I could sit around and jack off with this toy all day long. I never wanna take it out. If only I could pack it and wear it all day, but it's a little too large to be packed. And my partner loves it for the natural flex which makes it ideal for anal as it makes for a gentle entry. We've had so many orgasms out of this toy.