Abstinence pledges, conversion therapy, and sexual shame all have roots in purity culture. In this episode, sex educator Erica Smith deconstructs the toxic messages sent by fundamentalist churches, and how ex-evangelical queer people are the toughest folks she knows.
Why is it so hard to find a top in the queer community, and what stereotypes do we attach to topping and bottoming? In this episode, Bobby and Gabrielle reflect on tops—and their own internalized phobias—with fellow sex educator Tuck Malloy.
You know that lots of vulva owners don’t orgasm from penetration alone. That’s why cunnilingus is such a celebrated part of sex. Learn how to please your partner with zero neck cricks from guest blogger Sara Youngblood Gregory.